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Why I Talk to Everyone

Posted on 26 July 2007 by grahamlutz

I have made it a habit of being friendly to everyone I come in contact with on a daily basis, and I think you should as well. It’s not the most comfortable thing in the world to start a conversation with a total stranger, but if you don’t, you will potentially miss 100’s or even 1000’s of opportunities. Plus, once you get over your fear and just do it, you’ll have a great time making connections and building relationships with people all over town! I’ll get into this topic more in another post, but I thought I’d tell you about two recent conversations I had that may turn into something more!

First, I was at lunch with my dad yesterday when he saw an old friend and started chatting. So I, not wanting to stand there idly, started speaking with his wife, who I knew to be somewhat of an entrepreneur. We immediately hit it off and were engrossed in a business discussion when she mentioned her next idea for a venture. I won’t get into the details of it at this point, but I believe I may have found my next business partner! Just because I decided to be friendly. This also give me the opportunity to get into an industry and a niche that I never would have gotten into before.

Second, last night, when I was at Twist getting desert with my wife and some of our best friends, I noticed the man at the next table wearing a Breitling watch, the EXACT watch that I want. As you can imagine, I was a bit nervous to talk to this guy who looked to be mid to late thirties, was spending $300+ on dinner (I’ve never seen 4 people with so much sushi in my life) and obviously able to afford an $18,000 watch! Well, as we were finishing up, I asked him about his watch, and wouldn’t you know it, he opened right up! So 30 minutes later I have formed a mini friendship with Tony, the owner of the largest web hosting company in Atlanta! I got his contact info and I plan to hound him until he agrees to let me buy him lunch! It’s clear he has expensive taste, so it might cost me $100, but that is a small price to pay to get an hour with a man who built a $280 Million business from the ground up!

I hope this has been helpful to some of you, and I want you to know that my goal with my writing is to engage, equip, and empower other young entrepreneurs. With that in mind, I plan to author a few more posts regarding networking. These will include the details of how I’m meeting 10-15 new people every week and some ideas on how to get over the fears associated with starting conversations with complete strangers! Let me know if this is something you would be interested in, and let me know if there are any other topics you’d like covered! See ya!

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4 Comments For This Post

  1. Chris Auer Says:

    Great post, but 18K for a watch! Do you know how many businesses we could have started with that kind of money? Thats not really spending money wisely! Look forward to reading more from you.

  2. grahamlutz Says:

    Yeah, I know! 18K seems like a lot now, when your monthly revenue is like a buck fifty…but when you’re making $10Mil a year, $18k is nothing! I can’t wait! Thanks for the comment. I just spent a bit of time on your blog, Very Enjoyable! Everyone Go Check it out!

  3. XingR Says:

    Let me present an alternative view to Chris (and probably other’s) view of the $18K watch. I will bet a Breitling to a Timex that “Tony” is a subscriber to the “Abundance” theory … there is more than enough to go ’round. Chris, on the other hand seems to be taken with the “Scarcity” theory … there’s only a finite amount and whatever you can scrape by with you have to hang on to with and iron grip while you wait for success to “happen”.

    Ever see Donald Trump’s business jet, business helicopter and limousines? Now _there_ is an example of how not to spend money, right? Maybe so, but do you see anyone driving a rusted-out VW beating Trump at the deal? Don’t think so.

    Steve Pavlina has written several interesting articles on this subject, along with many other successful folks.

  4. Chris Says:

    Haha, point taken XingR! To rebut though, I am not saying hang onto the money, by all means, I have money moving all over the place… I just try to make all my “purchases” ones that will appreciate in value. We all have different ways of looking at things, thats what makes life so interesting! No one is wrong, we all have our different styles though! Thanks for information!

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